I was walking back from work the other day when I heard the sound of a bell, signalling that someone was leaving the shop across from me and it’s something that I hadn’t noticed before, besides taking this same route to and from work every day. It was the type of bell that you hear in old movies and it got me thinking: thousands of people have probably walked down this street before me, hearing the same chime and thousands will after me too. It was a strange revelation.
There’ll be fashion statements, celebrity household names and political triumphs that will define our generation but something that won’t make it onto newspapers to be read years later are the seemingly unimportant small talk that we have with our friends and family, the inside jokes that we share with one another and the small impressions we make on strangers. This is left to the hearts of those who felt it and passed down, through their own words, to those they care about enough to share with and that’s what makes them special. The raw, untarnished beauty of the small things in life.
Blogging is a great example of this and why I spend so much of my time reading through the work of so many people whom I may never meet. The way that different people experience the same thing and can share their average lives with an open space full of countless people waiting to listen, will forever fascinate me.
I’ve always been one for the “dull” moments. I am not a thrill seeker and I’d much prefer to sit in a field all day talking with friends about anything and everything. I’ll openly discuss any topic and share my own experiences with anyone who wants to hear them but more than anything, I love to listen. I collect small observations and memories as if they were fossils and write them down as if someday everyone’s going to want to hear them.
The big moments are often the focus of our efforts and the goals for our lifetime but the things that you’ll take with you, the things that will give you that true feeling of nostalgia are the small moments others may forget…